I hate how if there's something going on that involves scantily dressed women, and you're a woman and you don't approve the response is 'well you're jealous, you must be fat, you must be ugly, you must be a lesbian' (like that makes sense).  Like the lingerie bowl or skanky halloween costumes or whatever. Today I hear radio dj's talking about the waitresses at Heart attack grill. I quote the radio:

'You know what your problem is if you've got a problem with little girls in sexy nurse outfits"
"You're a fat nurse"

What can you even say to that? I'm not a fat nurse and I'm not jealous and I honestly don't have a clear opinion on restraunts like the gril and Hooters other than its kind of pathetic. It would be nice if we lived in a world where sex  and sexual attraction were something that both men and women entered into on equal footing and a Hooter's didn't have the unpleasant aura of exploitation, but that's not the way it is. There's too much baggage. As a society women don't pursue men, they are pursued. Sex is something that is done to women by men, not something that they do together. It is something that men are supposed to do and women are not (Who's the slut and who's the player?) Semantics aside something like 1 in 6 women will be the victim of a rape in their lifetime and a shocking number of men (and women) think that a lot of them deserve it. But lets talk about that lifetime. The number one cause of death for pregnant women and the number two cause of death for young women is homicide, most of the time by their partner. So forgive me if I don't think that women parading around in their underwear for the collective pleasure of the horny masses is a step forward. How are you going to get respect when you don't even ask for it?
But I digress... My point is that this is just one more thing. You can't say anything, you can't do anything. You have to agree or you're an ugly bitch.
I suppose the real question is why do I even care? Do I secretly want to be desirable to this man or am I just enraged that for every jackass on the radio there are a hundred guys in their cars nodding their heads? .

Word on the internet says 51% of guys would commit rape if they knew they would never get caught:
http://www.icasa.org/uploads/acquaintance_rape_-_DRAFT_7.doc
Maybe the study was rigged. Or maybe they'd only do it if she deserved it. 

A quote.

"But I’d rather die a lonely spinster in a house full of felines than stoke an insecure man’s fragile ego for the rest of his petty life. After all, I’m not that dumb."

Letters to the Editor, New York Times.